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2-Step process to be confident

April 18, 2020 • ☕️ 1 min read

2 step process to be confident
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  • Step 1: Be Truthful

Be truthful to yourself.
Be honest about what you know and what you don’t.
Be honest about what you are, where you are in life and where you’re going.
Don’t make stuff up just to impress people.
Don’t try to fit in.
Be comfortable with who you are right now, wherever you are.


  • Step 2: Don’t care whether you’re appearing confident or not

The less you appear to be trying, the better you do.

Fake it, fling it, do whatever, just don’t obsess over how you’re doing.
People can tell when you’re trying too hard.
Like when you can tell if someone is trying too hard.
Trying too hard is unbecoming, comes off as insecure and needy.
Complete antonyms of Confidence.


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